Rekindle your relationship and
love each other anew
Love, Rekindled.
The myth of love
There's a myth that if love is lessening over time, it cannot regrow. The myth that once you've fallen out of love, you can never fall back in love with the same person.
This is not true and often leads to couples not even trying to rekindle their relationship once the fire has burnt down.
Love is a living thing
Love is truly a living thing - as alive as you. If left without nourishment it can fade but equally it can regrow given the right conditions.
So, if you feel that your love for one another is starting to diminish now is the time to take the steps to put it back on course and help it flourish, once again.
Your route to happiness
Everyone needs help and advice once in a while. At points we all take career advice or advice how to spend our money or even advice on life decisions. Getting advice and counseling on your relationship should feel and be no different.
interself's Counseling is about helping you build the relationship you both want and maintaining its health and wellbeing. We're here to help you facilitate that through a unique program that will rekindle your love for one another.
Here are some of the results you can expect from interself Rekindle
How the course is delivered
Videos
5x20 minute videos designed to give you both the tools to understand and maintain your relationship. These are yours forever.
One-to-One Counseling
6x50 minute individual sessions that will explore and resolve the feelings you have in a completely safe and non-judgemental environment.
Two-to-One Counseling
9x70 minute sessions that give us the 'deep-dive' into your relationship. In these sessions we will help your relationship back to full-health.
Workbooks & Checklists
Simple pocket guides to help keep our work together on track and benefiting you throughout your days together.
Journals
Helping you organise your thoughts in ways which enable you to easily process your feelings.
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A deep sense of belonging between one another.
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Clear, meaningful communication with fewer misunderstandings.
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Being able to deal with practical matters in a way that works for both of you.
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Turning disagreements into opportunities without causing friction.
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Not compromising on what you both want … even if you want opposite things.
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Regaining your ‘balance’ and always feel centered.
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More time for each other without having to rework your whole calendar.
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Discovering why you are a great fit together and how to use that to your mutual advantage.
Uncovering things about your partnership you never knew and learning how to use them to grow stronger together.
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Charting new journeys and unearthing new destinations for your future lives together.
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Improved intimacy and better sex life.
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Ignite the spark between you both at any time entirely naturally.
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Does this feel familiar?
Every relationship has patches where the sparkle and sizzle wanes. This is normal. But sometimes these periods can extend to the point where it starts to worry one or both of you.
It can feel like you're both just going through the motions of being together - where the routine of living has taken over your lives.
Very often couples who are living the routine and not their lives find that their relationship starts to suffer. Minor annoyances become full-scale arguments and the little kindnesses and gestures become fewer.
And going away for the weekend or a quick treat here and there isn't enough to re-ignite the passion.
And as the warmth turns cooler you can find yourself questioning the basis of your relationship - wondering why the love has diminished and if it can ever be rekindled.
Wouldn’t you rather live in a world where there is complete honesty and transparency between you both without risk of vulnerability? Where no decision is a compromise but where flexibility and love is at the heart of every action?
At interself we can help you build that world, in the same way we have for countless other couples just like you.
Keep reading to discover how...
Rekindle: Program value
Only $3899
Including more than 15 HOURS of engagement time!
PLUS TAKE OUT OUR EASY PAYMENT OPTION
Simply split the program value over two easy payments of $1949.50. (One deposit payment and another payment one month later.)
Here's a quick comparison: Standard relationship counselling typically averages about $300/hour. If you were to take out the same amount of time that would cost you $5,400. On the interself program you save more than $1,500!
Rekindle is a 12-week program which repairs and rekindles your love for one another.
The program includes:
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9x70 minute two-to-one sessions
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6x50 minute individual sessions
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5x20 minute 'maintain and rekindle' videos for you to keep
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Workbooks, journals and more to help your relationship grow
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A healthy, loving, supportive, energised Rekindled relationship
interself Rekindle
Reignite the spark between you
interself Rekindle:
A relationship course like no other
interself Rekindle is a unique counseling course for couples who want to rejuvenate their relationship.
It is suited to anyone who wants more from their relationship, wants to optimize it or feels it's in need of some repair.
It is a combination of live two-to-one counseling, individual counseling, videos, and homework carefully constructed over a 12-week period to bring lasting positive change to your relationship.
The interself guarantee
We care deeply about the results you get from Rekindle. And we want you to be absolutely confident in the course and how it will help you both. So, if you feel, at any point within the first week that this is not for you, then we will refund you money - no quibble, no questions. This is our cast-iron promise to you.
About Dr. Mark Allen
interself Founder
Mark has over two decades of experience working with both individuals and couples.
Drawing from multiple graduate degrees in philosophy, psychology, theology and complex and social systems theory, Mark has developed a unique model to actively nurture personal formation and healing by actively engaging life through relationships.
Prior to founding interself, Mark’s professional activities included work as a professor, divisional sales manager for a Fortune 500 company and the founding of two successful businesses. He worked his way through college as a radio announcer and has also served as a volunteer chaplain for nearly three decades.
Born and raised in Southwest Iowa, he lived in Denver for ten years before moving to California in 2010. He now resides in Folsom, CA with his wife Vanessa and basset hound Watson.
Take the next step to a bright and beautiful future with your partner by signing up for a complimentary private session.
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Is a counseling program right for you?
If you feel embarrassed
Everyone needs help once in a while - there is no shame or embarrassment in that. After all, if you were lost in the Australian outback with no food or water and you stumbled across a Aborigine tribesman you would gladly accept their help.
Your counselor is your guide through your relationship - helping you reach a place where you are both happy, comfortable and fulfilled.
And because all our programs are integrated we can help your relationship naturally progress from wherever it is now to good, to great and beyond.
If you feel overwhelmed
If you feel a little daunted by the idea of a counseling session, please don’t be - that’s entirely natural and normal. We have more than a decade’s experience in making sure that our couples feel completely comfortable and relaxed during our sessions.
And each session will step you towards a better, healthier relationship
If your partner doesn’t want counseling
The big difficulty many couples find is that one wants the help whilst the other does not.
How do you get around this?
Truthfully, you can’t, and you shouldn’t – if one partner is not ready then, they’re not ready. But what interself offers is not traditional counseling, it’s very different. It even has a guarantee, and the first session is FREE.
At the end of the session, you will have two choices. Either:
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Take the information you’ve learned about each other and put it into practice with our blessing, or
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Carry on to the next step with us as your guide.
Either way, the time you spend will bring a new bond and closeness to one another that you will treasure.
Take the next step to a new level in your relationship. Fill in the form below to book your FREE session.
Here’s what to do next
You future Rekindled relationship is within reach. It is within your grasp, and it only requires that, together, you take a small but significant step towards a happy, bright, loving future.
What’s the next step?
First, we have to make sure Rekindle is the right fit for you. The best way to do that is to give you a 25-minute FREE counseling session with one of our skilled, qualified counselors.
In our 25-minute session together you and your partner will work directly with a professional counselor. Please note, this is not a sales call - it is time spent enabling us to advise you on the best course of action for you as a couple.
During our introductions we will get to understand your individual personalities and how they come together to create the dynamic of your relationship. Will do some (fun, honest!) personality testing to begin our journey together by mapping the territory of you as individuals. It provides a fascinating exploration of you and your partner often revealing things about yourself that you of which you were unaware. It casts a light across your personality to uncover things which begin to explain why you are who you are.
Plus, we'll also have individual sessions so we can review the personality testing and set you both up for success together.
It’s exciting, because it gifts to you the knowledge of yourself – something which we rarely understand in full and without which we cannot reach our full potential.
Introductions
What is Dynamic Understanding? It is what makes your relationship unique or you could say 'how we are together'. This module helps you understand your own nature and your relationship so you can successfully navigate your lives together. It will help you be 'intentional' about making healthy choices for your relationship. Some of the things we'll cover include;
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Rules and expectations you apply to each other / learning the dynamic of your relationship from the personality tests
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How you 'process' your lives together / how you empathise
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And much more.
How does it help? The benefit to this is that it helps you both bond and unlocks your potential in a way that enables you to recognize the depth of your relationship. It also helps you create openness between one another. It gives you the foundation from which you can fully engage in the following modules of Communication and Mutual Planning. Think of this module as the platform from which you will launch your future together.
How is the module delivered? Through individual and two-to-one sessions and by reviewing how you both interact. This will help you relate to one another at a higher level than you might have before. Plus, there's some fun homework, workbooks, video content and more so you can stay on course, refining and optimising your relationship in between our meetings.
Dynamic Understanding
What is Affirming Communication? Communication is the glue of your relationship, which enables you to share your feelings whilst simultaneously taking care of the other person's feelings. We'll cover topics such as, empathy in resolving conflict.
How does it help? This module will help you find ways to communicate with each other which enable you to address even the most sensitive issues without rupturing your love and connection. Together we'll help you understand how you can create new communication patterns, which actively draw you both closer together to create more unity and harmony.
How is the module delivered? We'll practice Affirming Communication together in our individual and two-to-one sessions so you can identify the opportunities to share more effectively. Plus there's the usual fun homework, videos, workbooks and more to help keep you on course between sessions.
Affirming Communication
What is Mutual Planning? This module will take the pressure out of decision making and resolves the conflict that can so easily come from taking action without concern, consent or consideration of the other person. This module will also help you if you find yourselves frozen into inaction, unable to make a decision because you don't want to upset each other!
How does it help? Seeing the 'us' instead of 'me' enables you to create a deep mutual respect and connection that achieves more together than you could individually.
How is the module delivered? During our two-to-one sessions, we'll use a series of techniques that first align your relationship before making practical decisions. This helps you both have 'buy-in' to all your decisions and creates solutions that neither of you may have thought of before! Plus, there are the usual videos, workbooks and journals to help keep you on course between sessions.
Mutual Planning
What is Reflecting Together? In the final module we show you how to take all the information you’ve already learned in the previous modules to find a flow in your relationship that cultivates peak experiences. We use a simple set of guidelines, approaches and understandings tailored to your relationships specific needs.
How does it help? It helps you solidify what you've learned and turn it into a set of practical skills you can use in your everyday life. It turns the knowledge into easy authentic automatic habits that benefit you both and create more 'highs' in your relationship - the module helps you grow in lasting respect for one another
How is the module delivered? We'll work together on both individual and two-to-one sessions, plus (yes, you've guessed it) some homework with workbooks, videos, journals and more to keep you on course between the sessions.
Reflecting Together
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